i saw this movie a few weeks ago w/ some friends. we sat in the theater until the house lights came back on. Reeeeally heavy film, but there were so many elements of beauty that stay on your mind afterwards. i love when a film gets you thinking about things. Blue Valentine made me question a lot of things & wonder what love even is. i'm sure a lot of people walk out disheartened, but for some reason i was really hopeful. things like that remind me that i've got a lot to learn